I FIGURED OUT READMORES YES

It will have been three months this Friday//Saturday. Three months is enough for people to show repeating patterns, the ones that define relationships in the future. People really don’t change until something big happens, and if you don’t like something now, that has been prevalent and a big issue, know that it won’t go away anytime soon, and it will only be magnified over time. You know your needs and I know you communicate them. If those aren’t met now, after only three months (which is not a long amount of time for problems to arise), don’t expect that to change. Don’t put up with something that actually infringes on your long term stability with anyone you might be committed to, you said it yourself, “I don’t want to settle”. So really evaluate that for your sake, and don’t settle out of familiarity.